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Let Me Keep my Innocnece
“You have to lose your innocence- we’re going to make sure you do by the end of this year.” I’m a graduating freshman from high school, and this is the statement that I have heard on a daily basis. I’m not exaggerating- everywhere I go, it’s people cracking dirty jokes that I don’t understand. While trying to do homework in orchestra, while having a free day in math, I just stood (or sat) dumbfounded while everyone was laughing like crazy. In both situations, people tried to make me “lose my innocence.” I repeated the same statement that I have grown so tired of saying because of the number of times that I have had to say it- “I would like to, if possible, keep my innocence.” And I am known for this innocence. I’m so innocent that I don’t know what “that’s what she said” means- still don’t, hope I never do, and so far, no one’s attempts to explain have reached me. (Don’t explain it to me either.) Although some people claim to be proud of their perverted minds, I told them one thing- an innocent mind can always become perverted at any time, but a perverted mind can never become innocent.
Think of a pink elephant.
Okay, now try to not think of a pink elephant.
It’s hard, isn’t it? When you tell yourself to not think of something, doesn’t that just make us think about it even more? That’s why someone has to concentrate on the good things- and that’s why I know that if I understood the dirty jokes, I would crack them right and left like nobody’s business. But so far, I’ve been spared from doing that. I’ve been able to stand up for myself, to not give in to peer pressure and allow myself to understand these things. I don’t want to understand these things. I enjoy being pure- I may be missing out on something, but ignorance is bliss. A child doesn’t need to understand those things to be happy- and consider me childish, but neither do I. I’ve told everyone that I would like to keep my innocence. As much as people tried to change that, they haven’t been able to. But their efforts still bother me. Their efforts are not completely futile. And in the end, I feel like it’s made me kind of lose a sense of who I am.
I think that this difference in me from other ninth graders should allow me to say this one thing-
Let me keep my innocent mind.
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I think if you are confident in yourself then do not let other people influence you...most people go around saying perverted things, and they have neither experienced it nor made the comment themselves...they heard it from someone who heard it from someone else...
"that's what she said" ..the thing to do is say it then laugh... in my opinion, most kids do not understand what is really being talked about...they just laugh and make jokes because they think it is cool and that others will like them because of it. Stay yourself and if innocent is you, then I am happy for you.
*Ignorance is bliss--totally true.
Certainly a very interesting article. A group of my friends call me "the pure one," and even though I do understand those types of jokes, I still consider myself to be pure at heart.
Many of the jokes aren't terribly clever either. It's mostly "oh, hey, this phrase sounds like it could mean this in a different context, and hahaha." Even if somebody does tell you what they all mean, it won't truly change you. Most of these kids grow up and rarely make those jokes again.
And a lot of that joking comes from insecurity (in my opinion), and the discomfort regarding topics of a sexual nature.
William Shakespeare said : you might defeat the sexual temptation but watch out for the jealousy...Don't enjoy proving people wrong,if you
William Shakespeare said : you might defeat the sexual temptation but watch out for the jealousy...Don't enjoy proving people wrong,if you stay away from sexual contact do it for your own advantage don't just push away any boy/girl that might just be a perfect person for you.
ummmm, im not exactly sure if i commented on this already but here we go anyways...
I respect your goal and ambition, but, in the end, one of two things will happen: you trip into the "pool of corruption" and learn to swim like the rest of us, or you will be the cause of your own demise. the innocent are prime targets for those more malicious people, and therefore these pure people end up getting very hurt because along with this perversion (which can be limited) comes social... defenses that one acquires... at least in my experience...
You have been warned...