My family usually turns against one another when one group is together and when we become close we target the single family member because they are by themselves. If the other family member knows a lot of things about the other person then they don’t partner up with another member. We pretty much just target each other until one person runs away and quits saying things. Just like in the “Animal Farm”. Napoleon and snowball fight for a spot and then they turn against each other. Napoleon’s idea about the windmill was taken from Snowball. So he disciplined snowball by chasing him away with the dogs that snowball took away from their mom when they were puppies. So now Napoleon was using them to win his way and get away with things. They turn against each other when they become leaders and they only think about themselves.