Do you ever get the feeling that you need to do something but someone won't let you. I would always argue with my mother about whose house i would go to for the weekend. I would want to go to my dad or grandma's house because I rarely saw them. I feel like if my mom would’ve let me see them more I wouldn’t have been so sad last year

Me and my mother would always argue. We never really got into huge arguments until this came up. I would barely want to be at her house and she always wanted me there. My father lives in Oklahoma City so I saw him every other weekend. My grandmother lived in piedmont but on the very edge so she couldn’t take me to school either so I only saw them on the weekends. I lived in Yukon at the time.

I stayed at my mothers house during the week but on the weekend I went to my grandmas house and my fathers every other weekend. I wanted to go to their houses because they were nice to me all the time but they couldn’t take me to school. My I asked if I could go to there houses and my mother said yes at first but then my father started to think I should live with him full time and i didnt want to do that and then my mother wouldn’t let me go over there that much because he was a different person when he wanted something. He was always super nice to me but would always cuss at my mother and emotionally abuse her over text messages. A few weeks after that he yelled at me for no reason because I was never at his house called me names. Then i realized I did not want to go over to his house 

My mother did not want me to go to my grandmother's house because she could not take me to school and she is really old and should not have to take care of me. I went to her house on my mothers weekends. I now realize why she didn't want me to go to her house a lot.

 My mother was right and I respect her decision