A pregnant woman cannot have a preconception about her child without giving the exposure of the world to the child, that means BIRTH. but for instance a mother always hope for a extremely bright child and also have a dream to see a fabulous future  for her child but I don't know , is this the result of curse by the god , or fate of the mother that some children are not that fortunate to be born normal as other mortals. Some children fails to  acquire same abilities of a normal born child and falls in the world of impaired abilities. Of Course it is not the mistake of that particular child who has born with differences but the god is the ultimate reality , the one who controls the entire world through the thread held by his hand , the one who blesses the humanism with births
so unfortunately no can do anything with that cause.

It absolutely depends upon that person , that how does he makes his/her life. Do they get trapped in the net of sufferings or lives the life in his/her own way perhaps in a beautiful and admiring way !

As soon as I think throught view of handicapped person , without imitation the world carves itself into a very unknown kind. A world where we have to be 100 % dependent on others , where we don't have the ability to do anything of our own, where people miss the beautiful action of walking or doing something, where if one loses  the battle of struggle to live life positively and happily gets wrapped with darkness and engulf himself in frustration and depression , a world where I cannot visit new places , cannot have fun with friends , hangout with our love rather all that we are left with is bitter memories and unsaid cries crapped and boiled inside our soul where we get exasperated from each small situations and fail to entice people from my inner beauty.

This was a small view from a handicapped person , for inference I would like to dart a statement  that if you ever get a chance to live with these special people , please for once try to grow their lives with box of happiness and see the change in yourself.