As a high school student, I learned the term “success” is overused and commonly misused due to society. According to Dictionary.com, success is the favorable or prosperous termination of attempts or endeavors. Society’s definition of success is the accomplishment of one's goals and the attainment of wealth. The keyword to society is wealth. Using society’s definition, I envision one whom lives in luxury with an extravagant mansion, breathtakingly unique convertibles lined up, and lavish apparel. What society does not notice is what goes on behind the curtains. That wealthy person could be depressed, confused, stressed, or have unhealthy relationships. It took a while for me to learn the true meaning of success.

I blame society for misguiding prospective students and the world. Growing up, we are told to acquire a career that will shower us with riches. Society will cloud the pessimistic of a lucrative career by engrossing coaxed favorable factors at you. The false perceptions could vary from popularity to confidence. They want us to work, work, and work just for money. Before you know it, it will be too late, and you will be stuck in society’s trap.


As a child I have been taught money is the most important thing. My mom continuously attempts to persuade me to be a lawyer or doctor, and her main reason is for the fat paycheck. I thank her for pushing me to be the best, but I am disappointed by the fact that she pushes me for the wrong reason. Three years into high school, I enrolled in science and math classes to better prepare myself for the medical field. In my classes I began developing a firery passion for healthcare; it was not about the money anymore, it was about being able to help others and save lives. I made the mistake of going into the medical field for the potential of a high salary. Luckily, I discovered the right reasons.


Happiness should be the most important thing to you. When choosing a career, you should choose something you will be fond of for the rest of your life. Why waste your time and finances for something you do not have a passion for? Why struggle and put forth the effort? Do not allow someone to belittle you about your career choice. Money will not bring you love, family, friends, or honor. What comes with your happiness is long-term.

What many lack to understand is success is more than one trait. Success is happiness, experience, peace within, peace with others, hope, and prosperity. You should take the time to enjoy life, live in the moment, be easy on yourself and others, and look forward to new things. With experience, you have memories to cherish and share with others. Discovering peace depreciates your stress level and lets hope become your motivation for things. Do not overload with work; reserve time with friends and family, for they are who will be there for you in the long run.


As I previously stated, success does not revolve around money. Success is many traits, such as happiness and experience. Be yourself, and implement what pleases you. Remember, no one is perfect. Success is a process and cannot be achieved overnight. Being happy with others, the world, and myself amplifies success more than the amount of money I earn. “Success” comes from a Latin word that means, “to follow after.” It is a reward after you follow a prescribed path. Initiate your prescribed path with happiness.